My best friend of 12 years started dating someone 3 months ago and has completely disappeared. Cancels plans last minute, doesn't reply to messages for days, and when we do hang out they're on the phone with their partner the whole time. I told them they're being a bad friend and they got angry.
I'm in a new relationship and I'm happy. My friend is being clingy and jealous. I still hang out with them but they expect me to be available 24/7 like before. People's lives change. I have a partner now and need to balance my time. They need to understand that.